Taking the Reins of Your Life
Having passed through the sacred choice of The Lovers, we now arrive at one of the most dynamic cards in the tarot: The Chariot. After mastering willpower here, we move on to the even greater mastery of Strength, where we learn that true power lies not in force, but in love. This is the card of will made manifest, of direction found, of opposing forces harnessed and directed toward a single goal. After the inner union of The Lovers, we now have the clarity and the motivation to move forward—not just to dream, but to do. This is the energy of victory through self-mastery.
In my many years of reading tarot, I have watched clients light up when The Chariot appears in their spread. There is something thrilling about this card—something that speaks to the warrior within each of us, the part that knows how to persevere, to overcome obstacles, to win against the odds. But I always warn them: The Chariot's victory is not about brute force. It is about direction, focus, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing exactly who you are and where you are going.
Think of the ancient charioteers of Greece and Rome—men who had to control powerful, often opposing horses with steady hands and unshakable focus. One wrong move, one moment of distraction, and they would be thrown. The same is true for us. The Chariot teaches us that the horses we must control are within us: our desires and our fears, our passion and our prudence, our conscious will and our unconscious impulses. Victory belongs to the one who can harness all of these, not the one who tries to eliminate half of them.
The Mythic Landscape of The Chariot
Let me paint the scene for you as it appears in the mythic imagination. A charioteer stands tall in a chariot pulled by two sphinxes or horses—one black, one white. The charioteer wears armor, but not the heavy armor of a warrior in battle. This is ceremonial armor, decorated with symbols of power and protection: the crescent moon on his shoulder, the stars on his chest, the crown of victory on his head. He is protected not by brute strength alone, but by spiritual understanding.
Notice the charioteer's posture: upright, centered, balanced. His body faces forward, but his head turns slightly to one side, reminding us that while we must look ahead to our destination, we must also be aware of what is beside us, of the forces pulling us in different directions. One horse pulls to the left, the other to the right—but the chariot moves straight ahead. That is the magic of The Chariot: movement in spite of opposing forces.
Above the charioteer floats a canopy of stars, reminding us that our greatest protection comes not from the world, but from the heavens, from our connection to something larger than ourselves. The city walls behind him represent the structures and structures of civilization he has left behind. He is moving into unknown territory, but he moves with confidence because he carries his city within him.
In Greek mythology, we find the sun god Apollo driving his chariot across the sky each day, bringing light to the world. We find Athena, goddess of wisdom and strategic warfare, who taught us that true victory comes through wisdom as much as through strength. We find Nike, the winged goddess of victory, who does not merely reward the strongest—she rewards the most focused, the most determined, the ones who know how to harness their inner horses and drive straight toward their goal.
And perhaps most importantly, we find the myth of Phaeton, who tried to drive his father Apollo's chariot but lost control and nearly destroyed the world. This is the shadow of The Chariot: the danger of untrained will, of ambition without wisdom, of trying to drive without knowing how to control the horses within. Phaeton's tragedy reminds us that the chariot is not given to us—it must be earned through self-mastery.
What The Chariot Teaches Us About Will
The Chariot is numbered VII—the number of victory, of spiritual mastery, of completion through struggle. After the six previous cards of the Major Arcana, we have explored the self, the world, power, wisdom, love. Now we must put all that we have learned into action. This is the moment when potential becomes reality.
I have found that The Chariot teaches us seven profound truths about will and victory. First, that true will is not about forcing your way through life—it is about direction. The charioteer does not push the chariot forward by sheer force. He guides it. He holds the reins steady. He knows where he is going, and that clarity of direction creates the momentum. Many people mistake willpower for effort, but the greatest expression of will is often simply knowing what you want and keeping your eyes on it.
Second, that we must harness our opposing forces rather than trying to eliminate them. The two horses pulling in different directions are not enemies to be conquered. They are sources of power. The white horse is our desire, our passion, our drive to move forward. The black horse is our fear, our caution, our wisdom that tells us when to slow down. Both are necessary. The charioteer does not kill one horse to make the other stronger. He learns to ride them both in harmony.
Third, that victory requires leaving comfort behind. The Chariot always shows the charioteer leaving the city walls, moving into unknown territory. Every meaningful victory requires leaving something behind: old habits, old identities, old ways of being that no longer serve us. The Chariot asks: What are you willing to leave behind to move forward? What comfort are you willing to sacrifice for your goal?
Fourth, that protection comes from within. The charioteer's armor is not made of metal alone—it is made of symbols, of spiritual understanding, of self-knowledge. When you know who you are and what you stand for, you are protected in ways that no external armor can provide. The Chariot teaches us that our greatest protection is our own integrity, our own alignment with our true purpose.
Fifth, that focus is everything. The charioteer does not look at the horses. He does not look at the scenery. He looks ahead at his destination. In our distracted modern world, this is perhaps The Chariot's most important lesson. We are pulled in a thousand directions every day: email, social media, other people's demands, our own scattered thoughts. The Chariot calls us to choose one direction and go.
Sixth, that movement creates its own momentum. Once you start moving forward, even slowly, the very act of moving creates more energy, more power, more confidence. Many people wait for motivation before they act. The Chariot teaches us that motivation follows action, not the other way around. Start moving, and the horses will start pulling.
Seventh, that victory is not the end—it is the beginning. The Chariot's victory is not a destination we reach and then stop. It is a way of being. Once you have learned to harness your inner horses, you can drive anywhere. The mastery you gain through one victory prepares you for the next journey.
Upright Chariot: Taking Control and Moving Forward
When The Chariot appears upright in your reading, the time for hesitation is over. You have the clarity, the motivation, and the strength to move forward toward your goal. The forces that seemed to be pulling you in different directions can now be harnessed to drive you forward.
Love & Relationships
In love readings, The Chariot indicates a time of taking control of your love life. If you have been waiting for love to find you, now is the time to go out and find it. If you have been letting your relationship drift, now is the time to steer it in the direction you want it to go.
If you are single, The Chariot suggests that you may need to make an effort to meet someone. This is not a card of waiting for destiny—it is a card of creating destiny. You may need to put yourself out there, to try new things, to be proactive about meeting people. And when you do meet someone, this card suggests that you will have the confidence and self-assurance to create the relationship you want.
If you are already in a relationship, The Chariot indicates a time of taking your relationship to the next level. Perhaps you have been talking about moving in together, getting married, starting a family. Now is the time to make it happen. But remember the charioteer's lesson: you must harness both horses. Your desires and your partner's desires must both be honored, must both be pulling in the same direction. Communication and mutual respect are essential.
Career & Finances
In career readings, The Chariot is one of the best cards you can get. This is the card of career success, of promotion, of achieving your professional goals. If you have been working toward something—a new job, a promotion, starting your own business—The Chariot says: go for it. You have the drive and the determination to succeed.
The Chariot in career advises you to be assertive, to take control of your professional destiny. Don't wait for opportunities to come to you. Create them. If you want a promotion, ask for it. If you want to start your own business, take the first step. The Chariot reminds us that success favors the bold, but also the focused. Know what you want, and go after it with everything you have.
Financially, The Chariot suggests that you may need to take control of your finances. Perhaps you have been letting money slip through your fingers, or you have not been paying attention to where your money is going. Now is the time to create a budget, to pay off debt, to invest in your future. Financial success, like all victory, requires focus and self-discipline.
Personal Growth & Spiritual Journey
For personal growth, The Chariot is a call to take control of your life. You may have been letting circumstances or other people dictate your path. Now is the time to take the reins and steer your own course. This is a time of self-mastery, of learning to control your thoughts, your emotions, your impulses.
Let me share a client story that illustrates this beautifully. A man named James came to me several years ago at a turning point in his life. He had been working in a corporate job for fifteen years, and he was miserable. He had always wanted to be a writer, but he had never had the courage to pursue it seriously. "I don't know if I can do it," he told me. "What if I fail? What if I'm not good enough?"
The Chariot appeared in his reading, and I watched as something shifted in his eyes. "This isn't about whether you're good enough," I said. "This is about whether you're willing to try. The Chariot doesn't promise success without effort. It promises that you have the strength within you to try."
James didn't quit his job the next day. That would have been reckless. But he did start writing every morning before work, for two hours, six days a week. He created a schedule and stuck to it. He learned to harness his fear of failure and his desire to succeed, using both to drive him forward. The fear kept him humble, kept him working hard. The desire kept him going when he wanted to quit.
It took three years, but James finally published his first novel. And when he did, he told me something that has stayed with me ever since. "The Chariot didn't make me a writer," he said. "It showed me that I already was a writer—I just hadn't been writing. The victory wasn't in getting published. The victory was in showing up every day, in taking control of my life, in driving myself toward the person I wanted to be."
That is the true magic of this card: it calls us to become the driver of our own lives.
Upright Keywords
- Willpower and determination
- Victory and success
- Taking control
- Direction and focus
- Self-mastery
- Ambition and drive
- Overcoming obstacles
- Assertiveness
Reversed Keywords
- Lack of direction
- Out of control
- Aggression and force
- Scattered energy
- Resistance to change
- Power struggles
- Losing sight of goals
- Self-doubt
Reversed Chariot: When Will Becomes Force
When The Chariot appears reversed, we are in the shadow territory of will. This is not a card of failure—it is a card of warning, inviting us to examine where we are out of control, where we are using force instead of guidance, where we have lost sight of our true direction.
The Danger of Untamed Will
The reversed Chariot often appears when we have become too forceful, too aggressive, too determined to have our way at any cost. Perhaps you have been pushing so hard toward your goal that you have run over people along the way. Perhaps you have been so focused on winning that you have lost sight of why you wanted to win in the first place.
In my experience, this reversal often comes with feelings of frustration: "I'm working so hard, but I'm not getting anywhere." That frustration is a sign that you are not harnessing your horses—you are fighting them. The harder you pull on the reins, the more they resist. The reversed Chariot asks: Are you driving, or are you being dragged by your own ambition?
Lack of Direction and Scattered Energy
Another common meaning of the reversed Chariot is lack of direction. Perhaps you have so many goals, so many things you want to do, that you end up doing none of them well. You are driving in ten directions at once, and you are not getting anywhere. Your horses are pulling you in different directions, and you do not have a firm hand on the reins.
The solution is not to work harder—it is to choose. The Chariot reversed calls you to prioritize, to decide what is most important, to focus on one goal at a time. You cannot drive to two destinations at once. Choose one, and go.
Power Struggles and Control Issues
When The Chariot reverses, power struggles often manifest. Perhaps you are fighting with someone for control of a situation. Perhaps you are trying to control something that is not yours to control. Perhaps you feel controlled by someone else, and you are resisting with all your might.
In relationships, this can manifest as power struggles, as each person tries to drive the relationship in their preferred direction. In career, it can mean conflict with colleagues or bosses, as you fight for control of a project or direction. The remedy is always the same: step back, communicate, find common ground. Remember that the charioteer does not win by fighting the horses. He wins by guiding them.
Resistance to Moving Forward
Sometimes the reversed Chariot indicates resistance to moving forward. Perhaps you know where you need to go, but you are afraid to go there. Perhaps you are comfortable where you are, even though it is not where you want to be. Your horses want to move forward, but you are holding them back.
This is perhaps the most painful position for The Chariot, because it means you are at war with yourself. Part of you wants to go forward, part of you wants to stay. The reversed Chariot asks: What are you afraid of? What is holding you back? Sometimes the greatest obstacle to our victory is not outside us—it is within us.
When The Chariot Appears in Your Reading
If The Chariot has appeared in your reading, whether upright or reversed, here are the questions I encourage you to reflect upon:
- What direction do I truly want to go in? What is my true destination?
- What opposing forces within me am I trying to control or eliminate? How can I harness them instead?
- Where in my life am I using force when I should be using guidance?
- What comfort am I holding onto that I need to leave behind to move forward?
- Am I driving my own life, or am I being driven by circumstances or other people?
The Chariot is ultimately a card of agency—our ability to choose our direction and drive toward it. Its appearance invites you to take the reins, to take control, to become the driver of your own destiny.
Working With The Chariot's Energy
Here is a simple practice I often recommend for connecting with The Chariot's energy and harnessing your inner horses.
The Two Horses Practice
This practice helps you identify and harness the opposing forces within you, turning conflict into forward momentum.
- Create sacred space. Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. Light a candle and take three deep breaths, centering yourself in the present moment.
- Identify your horses. Think about a goal you want to achieve or a direction you want to go in. Now identify the two opposing forces within you around this goal. What is pulling you forward? What is holding you back? Name these two forces. They might be excitement and fear, desire and doubt, ambition and caution. Write them down.
- Honor both horses. Now spend a few minutes with each force. What does the forward-pulling horse want for you? What does the holding-back horse want for you? You will find that both want the same thing—they just have different strategies for getting it. The fear that holds you back wants to keep you safe. The desire that pulls you forward wants you to grow. Both are necessary.
- Find the common direction. Now ask: What direction honors both of these forces? How can I move forward in a way that honors my need for safety and my need for growth? How can I use my fear to keep me careful and my desire to keep me moving? The goal is not to eliminate one force—it is to find a direction that both can agree on.
- Take the first step. Now choose one small action you can take today to move in this direction. It does not have to be a big step. It just has to be a step. The Chariot teaches us that movement creates its own momentum. Take the first step, and the rest will follow.
- Check in daily. Each morning, take a few minutes to check in with your horses. Are they both on course? Do you need to adjust the reins? Remember: the charioteer's work is never done. It is a daily practice of guidance, of balance, of keeping your eyes on the destination.
Repeat this practice whenever you feel pulled in different directions, whenever you feel stuck, whenever you need to harness your inner strength and move forward. The more you practice guiding your horses, the more natural it becomes.
Remember that The Chariot's energy is always available to you, whether you are driving toward a career goal, a relationship goal, or simply trying to become the person you want to be. The chariot is not something outside of you. It is within you. The reins are in your hands.
The Chariot reminds us that we are not passengers in our own lives. We are the drivers. We may not be able to control the road, or the weather, or the other drivers on the road. But we can control our own chariot. We can control our own direction. We can control how we respond to the challenges we face.
So take the reins. Look ahead to your destination. Feel the power of your horses beneath you. And drive—not with force, but with focus. Not with aggression, but with determination. Not with fear, but with confidence. The road may be long. The obstacles may be many. But victory belongs to those who keep driving.
That is the sacred path of The Chariot: to harness the opposing forces within us and drive them toward a single destination. To become not just the passenger, but the driver. To become not just the dreamer, but the doer. To become not just the person who wants victory, but the person who creates it.